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The Book of James – Exercising Control James 1:19-20

12 Dec

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Introduction

Our next verse starts with the word “wherefore”.  As you know that means the writer is concluding a thought so we need to look back at what has been said thus far so the concluding remarks make sense.

So what has been said?  This is our 6th lesson and the repeating theme has been patience.  We were first told to have patience during times of testing when God allows our path to get harder so we will learn to trust and depend on Him.  James then reminds us that if we will ask for wisdom, to know how to live godly, God will answer that prayer.  Next James tells us to be careful what we allow our minds to think about or dwell on.  All evil starts in the mind; we must guard our thoughts.  Finally, in our last post, we talked about times when Satan will tempt us to do evil.  In all these things James says to have patience.  Now James gives us practical ways to have patience.  It is one thing to say “Be patient”, we all agree we need to do that, but it is more helpful to say “Be patient and here is how to do it.”

Swift to Hear

Are we good listeners?  During conversation do we listen to what is being said or are we formulating a come-back answer while someone else is speaking?  (Conversation is not a competition, a debate is a competition)  Lack of communication ruins relationships. (Friendships, marriages & our personal relationship with our Heavenly Father) Wars have been fought over what boils down to poor communication.  Getting to know each other allows us to live more peaceably.  This is not only for “Uncle Joe” who refuses to listen to anyone; it’s for all of us.  Stop, focus and listen!

Example Time

You are watching a ball game and your wife comes into the room and starts talking about an issue she is having.  What do you do? A: you hold up your index finger signifying you want her to stop talking.  B: you do nothing and continue to watch the game.  C: you listen a little looking at her occasionally and continue watching the game.  D: none of the above.

Answer: your wife knows you were watching the game so this is important to her.  She does not want a debate, she does not want you to fix her issue, she just wants you to listen.

Slow to Speak

Do you remember the “count to 5” rule? When you are about to get angry stop and count to five.  I’m not sure if counting to five works but considering what you say before you say it is solid advice.  Go back to the lesson on being careful about what we think; if we are brooding inside eventually we are going to blow.  If we control what goes on in the mind then we have a better chance to stop before we say something we will regret.

Slow to Wrath

Part of the process for being slow to wrath has to do with the two things we just covered, listening & keeping our mouth shut.  You might say “wait a minute, Jesus became angry!”  That is absolutely true, in Mat 21:12-13 the Jews were selling sacrifices and exchanging currency in the temple.  Jesus was angry because they were desecrating God’s house for profit so he ran them out.  Jesus was not responding to personal insults or the fact that he was not getting his way, these are the things we usually become angry over, Jesus was upset that Gods house was being used as a “den of thieves”.

For those of us who struggle with getting riled up easily we need to use the lessons James has taught us thus far in Chapter 1…

    • Learn to open our ears (value other people’s words)
    • Learn to close our mouth
    • Remember to ask God for wisdom

Final Thoughts

In verse 20 James clearly states that if we cannot control our emotions we cannot please God.  Our relationship with our Creator is our top priority; if we say we want to be a good Christian we must control our emotions.  Some will say “I can’t help it, that’s just the way I am”.  Not true, God would not require us to control our emotions if we didn’t have the ability to do so.

Until Night,

A Servant

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4 responses to “The Book of James – Exercising Control James 1:19-20

  1. Tammy

    December 14, 2013 at 11:05 pm

    This whole study is blessing me. The way you present the study is practical and beneficial to me. Several of these have stepped on my toes and I thank God for that. Also for the gift He has given you for interpretation and clarity to put this out there for us to read, ponder and apply. May God bless His servant!

     
    • aservant2013

      December 15, 2013 at 8:36 am

      Thank you Tammy. How great a thing it is for the one true and living God, creator of all things, to look down upon each of us individually with love, directing us as dear children.

       
  2. Elaine

    February 18, 2014 at 11:03 pm

    Really enjoying this study and getting a lot out of it. I am in a Bible study group presently with a few ladies from church. We are studying the book the Lies Women Believe by Nancy Leigh DeMoss and actually finishing up that study tomorrow. I thought of that study of course when you made the comment “I can’t help it, that’s just the way I am”. Definitely is one of Satan’s lies to keep us from doing as God would have us to do–controlling our emotions! It is an ongoing battle to get past Satan’s constant messages to us and to indeed control those emotions, but yes it is doable if we consistently work at it and keep ourselves aware of when we may be letting ourselves get out of control.

     
    • A Servant

      February 19, 2014 at 1:12 pm

      Hello Elaine, your self examination is so refreshing. The things most try to hide you illuminate wanting Jesus to build you up. Thanks for reading.

       

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